That following Wednesday (Oct. 19), Olivia and I went for a run, and then she, Deeds, and I headed to the Co's (Costco and Winco). We came home and whipped up some dinner, and Olivia got a phone call. I wasn't really paying much attention, just dishing up my dinner and then Olivia came over and said that she just found out her dad has passed away in a car accident. I can't remember what I said or how I even reacted. No one is ever prepared for something like this. Olivia was holding it together pretty well, so I tried my best to not totally lose it. We all know that I do not do well when people pass away...like can't even handle it. She spent most of the evening on the phone with family and close friends. Tricia had left that day to go visit her sister's in Minnesota, so she felt terrible about not being home. I didn't have any idea what to do or what to say, so I just sat there with Olivia until she was ready to go to bed. I just didn't want her to have to be alone. Tragedies like these really put things into perspective and always overwhelm me gratitude for the gospel and my knowledge of the plan of salvation. Olivia left the next day to be with her mom and family in Idaho. Tricia, Raegan (Olivia's coworker and really good friend), and I drove up to Ashton last Wednesday for the funeral. It was a beautiful service, and Olivia did so awesome on her talk. And even though I bawled, I was very happy to be there to honor her dad and support my dear friend during this difficult time. I had only met him once or twice, but I know he was amazing because he raised such an incredible daughter! Here's a link to his obituary: http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/rexburgstandardjournal/obituary.aspx?n=lyle-reed-oldham&pid=154230361&eid=sp_shareobit. I was also very grateful to get the chance to get to know Raegan better on our trip to Ashton, ID. Olivia talks about her all the time, and I've met her a couple of times before, but you really get to know someone spending 8 hours in a car together. She is as good as they come!!
As a side note, I got pulled over on the way up there for speeding in Idaho. I was going 80mph in a 75mph. What Idaho? I can show you speeding, but going 5mph over is not speeding. Thankfully, the policeman just game me a warning. Note to self...go the speed limit or less in Idaho!
On the 22nd, I carpooled with the Grossen's down to Provo for the BYU football game. It was sort of a joke of a game, so thankfully, it wasn't very crowded and we could all sit together. The kids were so good, and the weather was unbelievable! Here is Soph and Me and Jack on the trip down, and then several pics of us all at the game. The Cougs won 56-3.
| Cougar tail...yummmm! |
| Buggy kept making this funniest face..haha! |
I love these people!
Last week was also the end of Deeds internship up here in Salt Lake. He has crashed at our house every night M-Th for the last two months. We slept in my king size bed together, which he has named "Sherwi Island". Notice the center console we put up between us on the bed. This was to prevent all possible touching in the night. It worked...except the one time I somehow ended up sleeping perpendicular on my side of the bed. I woke up to Deeds staring at me in the middle of night trying to figure out what in the world I was doing. Haha! I'm glad Deeds' internship went well, but we'll sure miss having him around!
This last Saturday, we headed downtown to Bruge's Waffles and Frites to teach Brett about these little beauties. He was converted! And I just drooled a little bit just thinking about it.
Last night, Tricia and I went on a covert operation. This picture was too funny not to include. My friend, Brian, was getting engaged. So Tricia and I retrieved a dozen roses and a bunch of rose petals from his house and then went over to his soon-to-be fiancee's house to leave the flowers and rose petals so they would be there when she got home last night. So happy for Brian and Amber! T and I are thinking of a career change to some sort of covert ops. We are pretty dang good at it.
And lastly, I swung by Amy's after work today to see Jack and Sophie in their Halloween costumes. Definitely the cutest t-rex and ladybug out on the streets trick-o-treating tonight!
| Roaring like a t-rex! |
Happy Halloweener!