Here is the story of me and shopping...never really loved it. Being overweight most of my life made it not so fun. I like it a lot more now that I can walk into any store and try just about anything on. I don't feel like I'm very good at it though. Fashion these days is sort of horrifying anyway with the skinny jeans and colored denim. No thank you, I'll pass! I already lived through the 80's once!
James loves to shop. Strange for a boy, I know! He loves to take me into a store and then pick out clothes for me to try on. I comply because his response when I walk out of the dressing room is always something along the lines of, "Whoa! You look smokin' hot!" I will try on clothes all day! He likes to go the expensive stores. I'm all about the Target, Kohl's, Old Navy, with the occasional splurge at the GAP Outlet. I like to think that we balance each other out. He loves to shop, and I don't. He will spend a pretty penny on something that is good quality, and I will panic and go try to find something similar at Kohl's for half (or more) the price.
So the whole point of this post is the outfit below...

I actually bought the skirt on my own at Costco (yes, Costco...for $29.99...which was even a little hard for me to spend). I had no idea what top I would wear with it or what sort of top I should even try to find. I just liked the skirt. My plan was to get something cream to match the polka dots. I don't think outside the box when it comes to fashion. One day James and I were at the mall and I explained my new skirt to him and asked what I should wear with it. He suggested a bold colored shirt...bright yellow, red, or coral. Well, we all know I will never wear red, so yellow or coral it was. We found this very cute top at the J Crew Outlet. It cost a pretty penny (even at the outlet for 40% off), but it fit so well and was so soft and pretty (100% silk). I made the purchase and then kept the tags on it for several days thinking I should probably take it back and find something similar for cheaper. Eventually I decided to just go with it. I had just gotten a sweet bonus at work anyway! Deep breathing!
I showed this picture to Amy and the first thing she said was that I look like Nienie. Could a girl ever be paid a higher compliment? For those who don't know who Nienie is, she is blogger Stephanie Nielsen. I read her blog every single day (nieniedialogues.blogspot.com). She inspires me in so many ways. She is a burn survivor and wife/mom extraordinaire. Not only has she overcome tremendous (beyond anything I could ever imagine) trials with grace, humility, and poise, but she is an incredible wife to Mr. Nielsen (as she calls him), and five cute, active kids. If I am half the wife and mom that she is someday, I will be a success! I love how candid she is about the struggles of everyday life but the beauty of woman- and motherhood. She has incredible fashion sense too! I can't even comprehend how her brain thinks to put together the outfits that she wears or that she dresses her kids in. Now I have an outfit where I can at least sort of look like Nie! I may just let James pick out all my clothes from now on, but we will have to be at Kohl's or Target! My bank account can't afford such expenditures on a regular basis. And come to find out, the shirt is dry clean only. Who has ever taken something to a dry cleaner? Not me! James will have to start handling my dry cleaning too!